You is all about you.

Is it right or wrong to take a step out, believe in yourself and do something for you? Well, I think it's right. I decided that my current day job is not for me.

So I quit.

After 3 months of trying to get into it, trying to focus - it will get better - I gave in and said, this isn’t for me. Rather than becoming doomy and gloomy, I took a positive step and a chance to better myself than to crumble into moans and groans of disliking my job and facing another day of unwanted boredom.

As a result, I have over night developed higher self confidence and a very positive outlook, just by taking a step and changing the bad to good. I do have a month or so left but it's taken the pressure off and turned the heat down at a decent level.

Life's too short to be stuck, stuck doing what you don't want. Instead of worrying what if, I have taken on the attitude of freedom and ditched negativity that was surrounding me to feel alive and will grow into a new job when it happens. It will be the right job for me when I find it and it finds me.

Some may disagree with my decision – but that’s your choice. I made my choice. It’s freedom of belief.

The saying you work to live is true - you don't live to work. Money may be tight for me for a while, but budget and opt out of the £8.99 shampoo and the Top Shop top for £30 (when really it's a bit of thin cloth that the next girl in the changing room is trying on). It doesn’t have to be all about clothes, fashion, money and extravagance - it's about you. You is all about you. If you dream of riches and know you're all about that, that's your choice. Work hard and wear the cloth. If you believe in the happy you, appreciating what you have got, then that's what you're all about. We're all different. I just happen to choose my positive step, handing my notice in as I wasn’t happy and believing in me.

Wake up in the morning, thank for you have and believe in you. Life continues no matter how much you grumble or how many times you cry, I love me - time doesn't stop for no one. You have to make the best out of each situation simply because you have to. We sometimes don’t appreciate what we have or what we believe in. We get caught up in the every day life of life, but by taking a little step out just to self check, be grateful for what we have can be a daily or weekly gratitude magnet to attract goodness to you.

I have had email chats with the author Erin Quinn recently and she told me to picture the end - see you in the end result. I have and am concentrating on that happy vision. For sure, life's not perfect, ups and downs get in our way and it makes you the bigger person. But hop on the happy train, buy your ticket and see where life takes you. You never know what delight is round the corner. It is waiting for you, you just have to believe and hold on.